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These beliefs may stem from unrealistic aspirations at home. As parents, we only want the best for our children, but actions like sending kids to SAT test prep in elementary or middle school may be sending them the wrong message.
"We need to redirect our focus to 'What are you learning? What are you excited about?' rather than what grade they got on their last test or how much homework they have that night," says Vicki Abeles, mom of three and co-director of the 2010 documentary Race to Nowhere, which investigates the cheating epidemic in schools across the country. "We need to let our kids know that it's okay to make mistakes. We don't want to raise a generation of perfectionists or cheaters-neither are beneficial to society."
