Handmade Hanukkah

A Rockland County mom of two reflects on her childhood memories of Hanukkah and how she plans to keep them alive for her daughters as they grow up.

When I was really young, my dad worked in retail. It seemed like my mom and I hardly saw him from Thanksgiving through New Years. This was long before cell phones, email, and other ways modern parents can keep in touch with their kids throughout the day. To cheer things up a bit during the eight nights of Hanukkah, my mom would hide my presents somewhere in our apartment. She would respond with "cold" if I was headed in the wrong direction, "warm" if I was headed in the right direction, and "hot" if I was close to the gift.

Somewhere along the line, I got older and my parents stopped observing the holiday, although I continued to light candles each night and make latkes for myself during this spirit-lifting winter holiday.